I hate people who feel like they need a girlfriend or a boyfriend to be completely happy. I’ve realized all the times that I disconnected myself from the so-called “love of my life”, it has been the greatest moments of my life. You know why? Because being alone allows you to spend time on you, not an “us”. It’s all about your happiness, your fun, and your hobbies.
People are dependent on many different things… drugs, partying, religion, friends, family, and relationships. It comes to a point where if one of these things are missing, their whole life falls apart. They need to start from square one to find something else to believe in, or to give themselves structure in their life.
This has been one of the biggest turn-offs in a lot of guys that I’ve met. My ex for example wanted a child. He thought that would solve everything and give meaning to his life, meanwhile another guy solely believes in having someone there and will chase after any girl who shows them the slightest amount of interest.
Stop being weak-minded.
If you need to believe in something… choose to believe in yourself, because everything else is make believe. Honestly, it’s fine to have friends, to believe in some sort of religion, or whatever the case might be.. but don’t be dependent on it thinking that it’s going to make everything in your life right.
Life is not about school nor about relationships…
But you are right life isn’t about parties, alcohol, or weed.
Life is about happiness, and everyone is entitled to their own happiness.
So the next time you tell me that you can’t have fun all the time… I’m going to ask you WHY? WHY can’t I have fun all the time if it makes me happy?
Leave ME alone.
I love when they bring you back to that moment when the picture was taken and you begin to realize all those great feelings you had back then.
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I love when they make you smile, better yet… make you laugh.
I truly appreciate some of my friends.
These people are not the ones who know every detail about my life, or the ones that know exactly what I’m thinking. These are the people who can just make me crack up till I can’t breathe when I didn’t even want to crack a smile. These are the people that I have countless number of inside jokes in. They don’t text or call me only because they have a problem or only because they are bored.
I realized that some friendships aren’t based on how long you’ve known each other for, or anything like that. It’s the people who you know deep down will be there for you at the end of the road… make sacrifices for you, and you know you would do the same.
I can’t really define some of the friendships that I have… all I know is that deep down I really love them. True and absolute love.
